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Numbing and withdrawal:
People feel nothing. They can lose interest in family, work and daily
activities.
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Re-living the event:
Flashbacks of the event will make the person feel as though they are
re-experiencing the event.
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Depression: This
is a very common response and is often the type of depression where
the person loses all hope for goodness in the world. It can be a very
discouraging feeling of cynical pessimism.
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Sleep difficulties:
Problems falling asleep, waking up several times during the night. Nightmares,
daymares, heart palpitations and sweats, and awakening very early are
also common.
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Guilt: Guilt arises
from a feeling of helplessness; either because a victim could not be
saved, or if they were they are in a state of pain, disability, or suffering
that somehow speaks of failure for the responder. The feeling of guilt
is real, whether in actuality anything could have been done differently
to prevent the outcome. Responders often feel it should have been them,
rather than the victim who was hurt or killed.
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Substance abuse:
Alcohol, drugs and other addictions are used to numb the pain. Many
responders know of no other way to survive the agony of coping with
the horror and aftermath of daily exposure to trauma.
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Family, marital
and relationship problems: In an effort to numb the pain, people can
become distant, hostile and very difficult to be with. The delicate
balance of relationships is severely altered, sometimes with irreversible
results, such as divorce, abuse, etc.
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Lowered level of
functioning: The individual's functioning ability can dramatically decrease
after a period of time in a stressful career. Any subsequent event that
is similar may render the responder inadequate or unable to respond
effectively to the crisis.